Tuesday, 10 June 2008
Saturday, 7 June 2008
Wednesday, 21 May 2008
Light Come On
Over the last month we have installed a light on a timer in Jack’s room. The main purpose of this light is to come on at 7 AM and tell Jack that is okay for him to call for Mommy and Daddy. This system has worked well and has been more necessary since moving him into a big boy bed. Many days it is unclear whether Jack has awoken before the light and just laid there and played or whether the light has awoken him. I imagine it is a mixture of the two. However, on most days, we hear Jack’s little voice call out routinely at 7 AM, ‘Daddy – Light Come On’ and then one of us (usually Charles) goes in and gives his good morning greetings to Jack.
Today we heard Jack make a few noises around 6:30 AM, but then we heard nothing until the 7 AM callout ‘Daddy – Light Come On’. When we went in to Jack’s room to greet him we praised him for staying in his bed until the light came on. He very clearly told us that he woke up and prayed for his light to come on, and it came on! Charles and I looked at each other and smiled – it is such a precious thought to think of Jack laying there for thirty minutes (which I doubt really happened) praying that the light would come on! We encouraged him that this was a good practice and that God does listen to prayers – we pray that God would listen to our parental prayer that Jack would grow to be a man who loves to pray.
Thursday, 15 May 2008
Gift Vouchers
Charles’s and my first encounter with this culture problem was during our first week here. We had a man at Tyndale House who helped us tremendously when buying our car. We wanted to thank him and his wife for their time with a gift certificate to a local restaurant. We were given a couple of suggestions and headed for those restaurants to buy a gift certificate. We quickly learned that the ‘concept’ is actually called a voucher. After repeatedly asking for a gift certificate and then explaining what it was, we were told that it was called a voucher, and no that they didn’t have those.
We trekked onto the next restaurant. Unfortunately, changing our word choice did not help the situation. After asking for a gift voucher, we then were asked again to describe what we meant. The manager of this place was willing to listen and then said he understood the concept and went upstairs. He returned downstairs with a calculator and a menu. He then asked us what we wanted to order for our friends. Order for our friends???? We barely knew these people, how could we know what they would want to eat on any given night. We had no idea if they were vegetarians, liked alcohol, etc. After realizing this was going to be an awkward gift, we thanked the man and said we would need to think about the order before making it. We left and never went back…
We did end up finding a place that gave gift vouchers – Chilli’s – an American owned chain I might add! Even there it was not straight-forward. The manager ended up printing out a homemade gift voucher on the ink jet printer for us. I suspected that a lot of fraud could have occurred with this system, but I abandoned my auditor hat, thanked him and walked home happily that I now had a thank you gift.
You would hope that the country would have progressed in three years in this area, but only recently I have learned that they have not. This time I was on a hunt for a gift voucher to thank someone who had given a talk at Oak Hill. Charles had told me of a restaurant that he was told did gift vouchers so I set out for that restaurant. I walked in and told the man (who was clearly the manager) that I would like to buy a gift voucher. He looked really confused and told me that they didn’t do those. I then told him that my husband had gotten one from there about a year ago. He then hesitated and said yeah but they take a lot of time and they are just really time consuming (a bit redundant, but that is all he could come up with). I felt like yelling, do you realize that I want to give you £50 right now, why are you turning my money away! I felt like spouting out all the statistics of how many gift vouchers are never used and it might even benefit him in that it would be £50 worth of profit with no reduction for the cost of food (if the recipient didn’t redeem it)! Instead I just walked out, in my mind – shaking my head for what a crazy country this is….
Thursday, 8 May 2008
Jack Riding Bike
We never dreamed that he would be able to ride a bike at a little over 2, but one day he jumped on a neighbor girl's bike and off he went. While out walking one morning recently, I had rescued an old bike from a trash pick-up and brought it home. I anticipated leaving it in the shed for another year, but after seeing Jack on the neighbor's bike, getting training wheels put on this bike became a higher priority. Jack loves his bike and had no idea that it was viewed as trash in someone's eyes!
We joke that Jack can pedal and go really fast but still needs to work on his steering - which has proven to be just a bit of a problem at times. His bike only has a hand brake and Jack's hands are too small to reach it so he has successfully learned how to jump off the bike when he wants to stop or pedal backwards enough that the bike slows down.
I have included a video for you to get a glimpse of what he and his new bike look like. Enjoy!
