Today we were getting ready to go to the park with one of Jack's good friends, Grace. Grace is a little bit older than Jack and has gotten to the stage where she now acts like a little girl. Jack has not quite learned how to play with girls. So today I decided that I would try to help Jack get along with Grace better by giving him some pointers on how to treat girls. Our conversation went something like this:
Erin: Jack, so God has made Grace a girl so there are certain things that you like that she doesn't.
Jack: Like what?
Erin: Well, she doesn't like to be tackled or wrestled or have someone jump and wave their hands in her face.
Jack: You like those things Mommy.
Erin: Well, yes sometimes I do. But the point is that Grace doesn't like these things, she doesn't do them to you, and it would be kindest of you if you didn't do them to her.
Jack (long pause, you can tell he is really thinking): How did Grace learn not to jump and wave her hands in people's faces?
And there you have it, the difference between girls and boys. Some things don't have to be taught or learned.